Amazing hint, but funny enough it was protokol that was making it obscure. I had total mix and protokol listening to same port and it was messing everything up. Put them on different ports? bam started working. Sigh… learning curve.
Excited to have gotten it working with out scripts and a big fuss at the end of it. Just the direct addressable OSC option, the localhost 127.0.0.1 address and correct port numbering convention. 